You may have read that somewhere and wondered what it actually meant. It doesn't mean men who've had sex with a lot of women, or men that can't keep their hands off women. It means men who genuinely like our gender.
You see, what I've discovered over a lot of years, is that most men don't really like women. They like sex, and unless they're gay or can be satisfied with DIY, the only way to get sex is by getting a woman.
And a lot of men resent that. I mean they really hate it! It's like we're holding their urges over their heads and making them beg for relief, beg for what they want. And though they feel like they do it, beg that is, they resent women for making them feel so needy.
You may never have felt like this. But I don't think I've come across too many men who haven't, at one stage or another.
But men who love women don't allow that vulnerability to get to them. They also don't blame women for their vulnerability.
Women are like exotic flowers. Something so different to you, in so many ways! Such men enjoy exploring the differences. They love those differences.
And you know what? Women love men who treat them as an exotic flower to be explored and valued as an experience. Men who love them for their differences, complexity, depth of emotion and sensitivity.
There is a lot of crap out there, written by Jerks and men who hate women, that says the way to get a woman is to treat her bad. To be a 'bad boy'. Women love Bad Boys, they say.
Women who are drawn to Bad Boys, (and there are a certain percentage of them I've discovered,) are really not worth the effort. They're so mixed-up in their heads, thinking they don't deserve better than to be treated like crap, that they aren't worth having.
Let's face it, where's the challenge in getting a girl who thinks she's crap?
The challenge, and the buzz for a guy's ego, is when he can attract a woman who feels good about herself, values herself and knows she deserves only the best. Now this is a worthwhile target. If you can get THIS woman, then you really prove your worth.
So, think about that for a while. IF you could get one of those women who really knows she's valuable, what would that mean about you?
So, Secret 1 is to realise that prize-women are attracted to men who really like and love what it is to be a woman. They don't want men who want to BE a woman! But they want a man who sees women as wonderful, fascinating creatures that are valued for their differences !
Ready for Secret # 2 ? Then what are you waiting for?
